
Jill and Kevin Heinz invited 69,882,707 people to view their wedding via YouTube. While you may not have invited quite that many people to your wedding, social media use is on the rise for everything from “I DOs” to RSVP’s.
According to surveys by magazine sites Brides and The Knot, 65% of couples are now setting up special sites to manage shower and wedding RSVPs, stream videos, and keep guests in the loop. 17% of couples use social media to plan, share details, shop or register for gifts.
Sheryl Davies of The Wedding Guide commented, “Brides today are 100% internet babies and receive all their information via the web. Socially integrated websites utilizing Facebook, Twitter, Linkedin and others are allowing brides the interaction they want… It’s the biggest turn of events in bridal history.”
So here are 10 innovative ways that people are using social media to get hitched.
1. PROPOSE or say “I DO!”
One woman discovered her proposal on StumbleUpon as she viewed a picture of her boyfriend holding this sign, “To my best friend … Whom I love, you are so amazing, and so smart, even more beautiful. So on this day, I want to ask you: Will you marry me?”
Another woman with a long-distance relationship got this proposal on Twitter. “WILL YOU MARRY ME?” Her reply: “OMG – Ummmmm… I guess in front of the whole twitter-verse I’ll say — I’d be happy to spend the rest of my geek life with you.”
2. WEDDING PLANNER
Create a “Wedding Party Profile Page” on Facebook so everyone invited can interact, plan, RSVP and post pictures.
Use an app to keep track of your budget. One couple went to the cloud, for online data storage and sharing…they maintained a master spreadsheet everyone could access at any time, avoiding the need for numerous email updates.
3. BRIDAL REGISTRY
According to Brides, 17% of couples register for gifts exclusively online. Sites like MyRegistry.com makes it easy to combine multiple registries into one universal gift registry for showers or weddings.
4. INVITATIONS
Nearly 1 in 5 couples of today’s couples go paperless. Many of those who do use traditional paper invites have dispensed with the inserts usually tucked inside envelopes, opting for email or Web tools for RSVPs, maps, and details on destinations or related events.
- Send out video “Save the Date” emails or posts for the shower and the wedding.
- Put specially created QR codes, with your special logo embedded in them on the invitations to add even more information.
- Invite guests via a live tweet with Twitter #hastags.
- A recent couple sent out invitations via Facebook, when they considered the fact that their friends didn’t know how to RSVP via traditional channels.
5. SAY YES TO THE DRESS
In the hunt for the perfect dress, 14-18% of brides say YES! to the dress online. Do your research; some online deals are knock-off dresses, which are not made with the same quality of designer manufacturer dresses. Check out site blogs and Twitter feeds, as well as liking their Facebook pages and read online reviews.
6. TUNES
Share your playlists with friends and have a contest to “Choose the Tunes” on your Facebook Wedding page.
7. FLOWERS, VIDEO/PHOTOGRAPHY, THE BAND AND THE CAKE
Florists, Bands and Photographers have embraced blogging and YouTube to showcase their work. Check out their social media pages and reviews before you put a deposit down.
- Other unique ideas? Order a cake with an iPad and a specially made topper to stream photos of the reception.
- Create an interactive seating chart so table partners introduce themselves and chat online.
8. SKYPE IN A VIRTUAL BRIDESMAID!
One enterprising bride Skyped in a “virtual bridesmaid” who couldn’t be there for the ceremony. She was walked down the aisle by a groomsman holding an iPad!
9. THE CEREMONY
Live Stream the ceremony to those who cannot be there. Take a look at some fun You Tube wedding videos , grand entrances and first dances for some great ideas to make your event memorable.
10. THE HONEYMOON
Websites such as Frommer’s and the Travel Magazine have chat rooms with Honeymoon discussions, advice, destinations and reviews. For fun you can also post honeymoon travel updates on Facebook via Foursquare check-ins.
Weddings seem ready-made for social media sharing on social networks in real time and the internet allows for that quick response and gratification.
Don’t forget to change your Facebook status to “♥ Married”. After all, nothings official it’s public on Facebook!








